CHANGE INVOLVES RISK

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Genesis Process Change Group 
💕Leeanna

DO YOU FEEL STUCK IN A DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR? 
“Why do I do the very thing I don’t want to do”? What will it take to make me uncomfortable enough to CHANGE? 
Stagnation is staying stuck in the middle of a double bind.  Resolving double binds is the key for change.  

Discomfort/pain is usually the motivator for change.  Doing the right thing is usually the hard thing.  Simply making a choice to act can result in reducing the power of the double binds and destructive behaviors those produce.  

DOUBLE-BINDS
Identify the double bind by Charting out the 
PROBLEM: example FOOD

WHAT DOES GOD SAY ABOUT FOOD? 
What Scripture comes to mind? 

IF I DO CHANGE, I FEAR....
What Will Happen if I Give Up the FOOD Problem or Resolve it? What is the bad thing I will feel/experience/be vulnerable to if I change? 

IF I DON’T CHANGE, I FEAR...
What Will Happen If I Do Not Change and keep avoiding the PROBLEM OF FOOD? What might be the consequence of NOT changing? A year from now, where might I be if I do not change?

THE RIGHT THING TO DO
Identify the right thing to do.  What’s the hardest of the two? To Change or not to change? 

WHAT/WHEN/WHO/WHERE/HOW
What specific and practical step can I take towards change this week and who will keep me accountable? Move towards what you fear and take ACTION! 

DOUBLE-BINDS
An Example of Double-Bind concerning Food:

DOUBLE-BIND PROPLEM: FOOD

#1 ON THE ONE HAND

IDENTIFY WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DO MOVE TOWARD CHANGE BY ASKING QUESTIONS:
Look for the negative unconscious beliefs driving this behavior by asking yourself questions:

What bad thing do I believe will happen if I lose the weight, stop turning to food, and change? 

If I give up food as a way to cope, I will have to ask for help.  I will have to feel rather than feed my feelings of loneliness, anger, anxiety, sense of failure (due to a belief that I can’t maintain for life so why bother—hopelessness), sadness that I will miss out on fun of eating out or have a stifling, dull existence, I will be deprived or other negative beliefs.  I also may have to deal with attracting attention to myself; good or bad or I will be ridiculed or judged for doing something others don’t approve of or cannot do. I may have to feel the pain of being “different”, not fitting in with the crowd, “missing out” on what others “get” to have, etc. this keeps me stuck and resistant to change.  

#2 ON THE OTHER HAND,

IDENTIFY WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DON’T CHANGE BY ASKING QUESTIONS: 
What bad thing will happen if I don’t change, if I keep turning to food for comfort?

If I don’t change and keep going in the same pattern and direction I have been, for another year or two, or ten, what will more than likely be the result?

If I don’t give up eating when not hungry, if I don’t stay on a healthy eating plan, and consistently take my supplements ðŸ˜Š I will continue to jeopardize my health, feel like a failure, become more isolated and alone, and continue to stuff and not deal with what I’m using the food to cope with.  

THE HARD THING IS THE RIGHT THING
Which of these two things are the hardest thing to do?  That’s probably the right thing to do and God will bless it.  (The hardest thing to do is #2: Stick with the plan! Feel and identify my feelings and beliefs, when confronted with things that come up in #1). 

Coping behaviors like overeating, TEMPORARILY push back unwanted thoughts, feelings and memories.  

Which is harder? Which is the right thing to do? What does God say about this?

CHANGE INVOLVES RISK
What am I willing to do THIS WEEK, to risk out of this stuck place, by moving toward resolving this double bind? Where am I in the “Hope Cycle”? HOPE comes from CHANGE, CHANGE comes from RISK, RISK comes from FAITH, FAITH gives you HOPE to CHANGE and RISK again! 

What specific and practical thing can I do to move towards what I fear the most this week, in order to make a change? WHAT I FEAR THE MOST is keeping me from what I need the most. I WORSHIP WHAT I FEAR.  

What does the Bible/God say about Fear?   

ACCOUNTABILITY
Who will you share this with and allow them to follow up in a week? 
Repeat this process weekly.

Resist the Devil (Like Dorris)

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RESIST THE DEVIL
Leeanna Porter

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.Ephesians 6:12 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7

Slightly 5 foot 1 inch tall and sporting flaming red hair, which was actually auburn enhanced by Miss Clairol, my mother stepped onto the elevated front porch.  With one hand on her boney hip, and the other shaking a pointing finger, she fearlessly addressed the motorcycle gang, that had just taken unprecedented liberties with her freshly manicured front lawn and her beloved monkey grass and petunia-lined sidewalk.  Well-heard, over the sound of 13 revving Harley's, Dorris barked out her orders with the authority of a Hitler to his underlings. "GET THOSE BLANKETY-BLANK BIKES OFF OF MY BLANKETY-BLANK GRASS, RIGHT NOW!!!". 

At just 7 years old, I was captivated by the way my mother was able to sound out her orders so loudly, while at the same time balance a freshly lit Winston filterless cigarette out of the corner of her Merle Norman painted lips.  Horrified, her teenage rebellious son, who had just returned from California with these Goliath beings on the lawn, abandoned his own bike in a flash and leapt onto the porch in order to save our french-twisted mother's uninformed, spunky life.  I heard my brother in a loud panicky whisper say, "MOM! HUSH! You don't know who you are yelling at! Those are THE HELL'S ANGELS!".  My mother's reply? "WELL, HELL'S BELLS! I DON'T CARE WHO THEY ARE"! She yelled even louder, "THEY CAN GET THEIR BLANKETY BLANK ARSES OFF MY BLANKETY BLANK GRASS OR ELSE!!".

No one was more surprised than me, when I saw twelve, 200-pound Hell's Angels, carefully back their Harley's off my mother's grass and thunderously slink away.

After I was born-again, and began to experience the Adversary trying to wreck havoc on the “property” of my own mind and life, this story would return to my memory and teach me a principle for spiritual warfare.  

  1. The Word of God has instructed us on how to deal with the flaming arrows of the evil one.  Ephesians 6:11 says, Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. And 1 Peter 5:8 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith.  
  2. Remember, man (flesh and blood) is not our enemy.  The forces of evil spirits are our foes to wrestle with.  
  3. Do not accept the invasion of the enemy on your turf.  Be bold, be brave, be firm and be ready to recognize his intentions and send him on his way. The spiritual weapons of our warfare are MIGHTY and can pull down strongholds. Be strong in the Lord, in the strength of HIS might!    Draw near to God.  Resist the devil and he must flee.  


Corona Life 2020

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Perfect love casts out all fear.  Truth will help us sort it out.  Fear and lies will just lead our country to a worse place than this virus ever will.  I am praying for truth to come to light.  

Feelings are not always based on truth.  If I’m walking through a forest and I see a poisonous snake, I might feel great fear and run.  However, if I look at the snake closer because someone tells me it’s a harmless stick, I would immediately lose my fear, either kick that stick away so I don’t trip on it, or go around it and carry on.  Fear would no longer control my progress forward.  Now, so no one  misinterprets my meaning here - I am NOT saying this virus is harmless! But I am saying that Fear is a Liar.  The Word says, anything done done from faith is sin”.  

I am trying my best to keep my ear tuned to what God says and not be distracted by what men who are not led of God are saying.  Especially if it’s fear driven and keeping me from acting in faith.  We are to obey our leaders unless they ask us to sin.  

Our God-appointed President is saying get back to work and don’t give up our constitutional rights.  I’ve heard him say that over and over.  Yet, Unelected people are trying to overrule him.  So again God is my Counselor.  He directs my path.  I listen to the voice of the Good Shepherd; another voice I will not listen to.  Whatever is not from faith is sin, is a reminder that fear or faith, truth or deceit will guide us. There are numerous supports for this outside Romans 14:23. For example:
Paul  in Romans 4:20 says that faith glorifies God: “Abraham grew strong in his faith as he gave glory to God.” The reason faithless acts are sin is that they don’t glorify God as trustworthy.
1 Corinthians 10:31, Paul said, “Whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” But you can’t glorify God if you are dishonoring him by not trusting him. So where there is no faith, 1 Corinthians 10:31 is being disobeyed.  
Hebrews 11:6 says, “Without faith it is impossible to please him.” Therefore, all acts even “good” apart from Faith, displease God.
I believe in order to live by faith in this generation, we need a reset button.  Resetting us to remember who our King is.  We are not of this world.  We are in it and we must obey our leaders unless they ask us to sin, but this is not our ultimate home.   When we try to hold on to the things of this world, we risk forfeiting our souls.   It’s His Peace that should rule in our hearts and be our umpire with every decision.  Fear is a powerful voice in our heads especially if spoken by many loud and angry  voices.  

Let’s get away and seek the Lord and His direction through His Word and by His Holy Spirit Counselor.  He said we will hear his voice saying this is the way, walk in it. The question is, will we lean towards His voice of Peace and truth or the voices of many who demand we bow to them instead?  When we step back, pray, reset, listen, the Peace of God will rule.  

We Hear God’s Voice

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For those who think Christians are dumb sheeple and crazy weirdos

So this is only to enlighten those who sincerely care to listen.  If you can’t read it all, don’t bother reading any of it, because you are not open to understanding us.  

True, authentic Believers in Christ Jesus are those who have supernaturally been transformed by the Holy Spirit of God.  Yes, unfortunately, there are authentic and fake Christians in this world (Wheat and Tares); You will know the real ones by their love and their good fruit.  True Christians have believed the good news (Christ Jesus died to pay our penalty of death for sin on a cross with His sacrifice of His own spotless sinless blood and released us from the sentence of eternal death to give us promise of eternal life).  And after believing the Gospel, we were immediately baptized/immersed (identified with) the Holy Spirit Of Promise.  Now every one of us who are baptized into Christ can hear his voice within us.  We literally have the “Mind of Christ”. His Spirit bears witness with our Spirit that we are born again as his child.  

Since WE HEAR and know His voice, His Scriptures become alive to us and we understand them.  Before the Holy Spirit came to live in us, the Scriptures were like jibberish to us and didn’t make sense.   Apart from the Spirit of Christ, no one can understand the Scriptures.  Now, In Christ our eyes and ears have become tuned in and we understand them.  “And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.” 

Have you ever wondered why devoted Christians seem to cling to Christ so radically? Why do they die for their faith? Even the most horrific deaths?  Why did everyone of Jesus’ disciples allow themselves to be tortured and murdered for their faith? Why would they not renounce Christ as they were tied to a stake to be burned, if it weren’t true? Because they could literally HEAR the voice of God through His indwelling Holy Spirit.  I can say this without a doubt because I too hear His voice, regularly.  He is more real to me than anyone else.   

And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, “This is the way, walk in it,” when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left. John 10:27 
My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. John 14:16-17 
And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.

The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, John 10:3-4 
To him the gatekeeper opens. The sheep hear his voice, and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice.

There once was a person named Saul who persecuted Christians with a passion.  He was so sure that he was righteous in doing so.  Much blood of many saints of Jesus were killed by his hand.  Now what would cause a devoted man like Saul to change his mind and believe in Christ as Lord and God? HE HEARD THE VOICE OF JESUS! It’s no different than us who are born again who now hear Jesus and follow him to the death.  

Here’s how it happened to an unbeliever named Saul who later became known as Paul:

Saul’s Conversion
Acts:9 Meanwhile, Saul was still breathing out murderous threats against the Lord’s disciples. He went to the high priest and asked him for letters to the synagogues in Damascus, so that if he found any there who belonged to the Way, whether men or women, he might take them as prisoners to Jerusalem. As he neared Damascus on his journey, suddenly a light from heaven flashed around him. He fell to the ground and heard a voice say to him, “Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?”
“Who are you, Lord?” Saul asked.
“I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting,” he replied. “Now get up and go into the city, and you will be told what you must do.”
The men traveling with Saul stood there speechless; they heard the sound but did not see anyone. Saul got up from the ground, but when he opened his eyes he could see nothing. So they led him by the hand into Damascus. For three days he was blind, and did not eat or drink anything.
10 In Damascus there was a disciple named Ananias. The Lord called to him in a vision, “Ananias!”
“Yes, Lord,” he answered.
11 The Lord told him, “Go to the house of Judas on Straight Street and ask for a man from Tarsus named Saul, for he is praying. 12 In a vision he has seen a man named Ananias come and place his hands on him to restore his sight.”
13 “Lord,” Ananias answered, “I have heard many reports about this man and all the harm he has done to your holy people in Jerusalem. 14 And he has come here with authority from the chief priests to arrest all who call on your name.”
15 But the Lord said to Ananias, “Go! This man is my chosen instrument to proclaim my name to the Gentiles and their kings and to the people of Israel. 16 I will show him how much he must suffer for my name.”
17 Then Ananias went to the house and entered it. Placing his hands on Saul, he said, “Brother Saul, the Lord—Jesus, who appeared to you on the road as you were coming here—has sent me so that you may see again and be filled with the Holy Spirit.” 18 Immediately, something like scales fell from Saul’s eyes, and he could see again. He got up and was baptized, 19 and after taking some food, he regained his strength.
Saul in Damascus and Jerusalem
Saul spent several days with the disciples in Damascus. 20 At once he began to preach in the synagogues that Jesus is the Son of God. 21 All those who heard him were astonished and asked, “Isn’t he the man who raised havoc in Jerusalem among those who call on this name? And hasn’t he come here to take them as prisoners to the chief priests?” 22 Yet Saul grew more and more powerful and baffled the Jews living in Damascus by proving that Jesus is the Messiah.
23 After many days had gone by, there was a conspiracy among the Jews to kill him, 24 but Saul learned of their plan. Day and night they kept close watch on the city gates in order to kill him. 25 But his followers took him by night and lowered him in a basket through an opening in the wall.
26 When he came to Jerusalem, he tried to join the disciples, but they were all afraid of him, not believing that he really was a disciple. 27 But Barnabas took him and brought him to the apostles. He told them how Saul on his journey had seen the Lord and that the Lord had spoken to him, and how in Damascus he had preached fearlessly in the name of Jesus. 28 So Saul stayed with them and moved about freely in Jerusalem, speaking boldly in the name of the Lord. 29 He talked and debated with the Hellenistic Jews,[a] but they tried to kill him. 30 When the believers learned of this, they took him down to Caesarea and sent him off to Tarsus.
31 Then the church throughout Judea, Galilee and Samaria enjoyed a time of peace and was strengthened. Living in the fear of the Lord and encouraged by the Holy Spirit, it increased in numbers.  

While the Bible does not specify when and how Paul died, we know that 2nd Timothy was written while Paul was in a Roman prison from 66-67 AD—not long after the burning of Rome in 64—and that during this time Paul was anticipating his death: “For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time for my departure is near. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:6-8). Furthermore, an early church historian Eusebius wrote that Paul was, indeed, beheaded at the order of the Roman emperor Nero.

Why would someone like Saul die as a martyr?   Because he heard the voice of Jesus!  If you could hear his voice like we do, you would also die for your faith.  

Others have died for what they believe.  Such as these examples in the Bible.  

They were stoned, they were sawn in two, they were killed with the sword. They went about in skins of sheep and goats, destitute, afflicted, mistreated—

The Stoning of Stephen
Acts 7:54 Now when they heard these things they were enraged, and they ground their teeth at him. 55 But he, full of the Holy Spirit, gazed into heaven and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing at the right hand of God. 56 And he said, “Behold, I see the heavens opened, and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God.” 57 But they cried out with a loud voice and stopped their ears and rushed together[b] at him. 58 Then they cast him out of the city and stoned him. And the witnesses laid down their garments at the feet of a young man named Saul. 59 And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” 60 And falling to his knees he cried out with a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” And when he had said this, he fell asleep.

WHY DIE FOR CHRIST?
If you will subscribe to a magazine called THE VOICE OF THE MARTYRS, you can read of modern day Christians who live and die daily for Christ.  Who would willingly die for a false faith!?  God is real.  His voice is loud and clear to us who believe.  It’s not a joke.  

Are you like I was at one time? A mocker of Christians? One who is spiritually dead in their trespasses and sins? Are you like Saul, a persecutor and hater of Christians? Do you want us dead?  Do you ever wonder why your heart is so set on murdering us?   I think I can show you why if you have ears to hear.  

Whoever is of God hears the words of God. The reason why you do not hear them is that you are not of God.”

And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, “This is the way, walk in it,” when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left.

When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.

“Truly, truly, I say to you, an hour is coming, and is now here, when the dead will hear the voice of the Son of God, and those who hear will live.

I pray that this is you.  That you will hear the voice of the Son of God and live.  That you will open your heart to the Spirit of Truth and walk in it.  

My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. John 14:16-17 
And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.

The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, John 10:3-4 
To him the gatekeeper opens. The sheep hear his voice, and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice.

And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us.

Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.”

A Psalm of David. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. ...

Would you also like to hear His voice and be saved? We can talk more about that if you are willing to have the conversation.